"The only reason to do is want to do".
you sometimes happens to us, in living, that we are as confused, without
direction. We are confusing ourselves in crisis. What we do when this happens?
Sometimes we just, we move by inertia, put on autopilot and let the
circumstances, the routine will lead us.
Further, we connect with the "shoulds" (what should be / make a person like me
in a circumstance like this?). We, in this case, social norms, education
received, the advice of others to guide us in our accionar.Tal time after time,
that uncomfortable feeling of disorientation happens. And most likely, back
else could we do to take advantage of the opportunity provided by these
"personal crisis"? We can, for example, get in touch with ourselves and ask
ourselves: What do you want? What do I care? What do you do for me that life is
worth? What are my dreams?
We can explore from the question, from not knowing earlier. Accepting that what
I want, what I care, I care, beyond what others think, beyond the consequences
of bringing this action (which, in any case, we evaluate below).
And in this self inquiry can be very useful to accompany a Ontological Coach.
horizon is reached every day".
is on the horizon.
I walk two steps,
it moves two steps.
I walk another ten steps
and the horizon runs
ten steps further.
As much as I walk
never reach it.
And then ...
What good is utopia?
For that serve:
Start with the end in mind means to start with a clear understanding of your
destination. It means knowing where you are going, so that they can better
understand where you are, and always give the right steps in the right
It is incredibly easy to fall into the trap of activity in the busyness of life,
work harder and to climb the ladder of success, and finally discover who is
leaning against the wrong wall. You may be busy, busy, without being very
Often people are getting empty victory, successes achieved at the expense of
things that suddenly realizes that they are much more valuable.
to a number of circumstances, an eagle's egg went to a corner of the barn where
a hen brooding her eggs. And so the little eaglet was hatched with the chickens.
After some time, the marsh, inexplicably, began to feel like flying. So Mom
"When I learn to fly?".
The poor hen was perfectly aware that she could not fly nor had the slightest
idea of what other birds were to train their young in the art of flying.
But as I was ashamed to acknowledge his inability, he replied evasively:
"It is too soon, my son. I'll show you when the time comes."
Months passed and the young eagle began to suspect that her mother could not
fly. But it was not able to escape and fly on their own, because his intense
desire to fly was mixed with the feeling of gratitude she felt towards the bird
that had been incubated.
Anthony de Mello
Today I was born (Amado Nervo)
Every day that passes, you have to say:
"Today I was born!
The world is new to me, the light
I look at it,
hurts, no doubt, by the first
my clear eyes;
rain today its crystals fray
is my baptism. "
"Come, then, to live a pure life,
a crisp live.
Yesterday is gone already: I went wrong?, Okay?
... Come oblivion
and left alone, that yesterday, the essence,
of what I loved and suffered as he marched
by the way "
"Today, every moment, good and to happiness,
and the essential reason for my existence,
I decided to hurry, pour the joy over the world,
the goodness of hungry mouths
regilded in mine. "